This logo represents the love of the Holy Family
which is at the heart of the cause for life and for the family.

The Office of Family Life assists the Bishop in his pastoral care of marriage and the family and in his promotion of a culture of life. The office coordinates pro-life activities in the diocese; provides programs of marriage preparation, marriage enrichment, natural family planning, Christian parenting and education in human sexuality; and provides consultation on bioethical issues. The office is guided by the vision of the Church as outlined in the documents of the Second Vatican Council and the writings of Pope John Paul II, principally Familiaris Consortio and Evangelium Vitae, a excerpt from which follows at the end of this page.

Fred & Lisa Everett, Co-Directors; John & Monica Sikorski, Assistant Directors for Youth & Young Adult Outreach

You can reach our office at the South Bend Chancery at (574) 234-0687. Ask for Helen Austgen, our administrative assistant. You can also write to us there at 114 W. Wayne St. / South Bend, IN 46601 or email Fred at fredeverett@sbcglobal.net; Lisa at lisaanneverett@sbcglobal.net; Helen at haustgen@fw.diocesefwsb.org; or John & Monica at msikorski@fw.diocesefwsb.org.

A message from Pope John Paul II

Within the 'people of life and the people for life,' the family has a decisive responsibility. This responsibility flows from its very nature as a community of life and love, founded upon marriage, and from its mission to 'guard, reveal and communicate love.' Here it is a matter of God's own love, of which parents are co-workers and as it were interpreters when they transmit life and raise it according to his fatherly plan. This is the love that becomes selflessness, receptiveness and gift. Within the family each member is accepted, respected and honored precisely because he or she is a person; and if any family member is in greater need, the care which he or she receives is all the more intense and attentive.

"The family has a special role to play throughout the life of its members, from birth to death. It is truly 'the sanctuary of life: the place in which life — the gift of God — can be properly welcomed and protected against the many attacks to which it is exposed, and can develop in accordance with what constitutes authentic human growth.' Consequently the role of the family in building a culture of life is decisive and irreplaceable.

"As the domestic church, the family is summoned to proclaim, celebrate and serve the Gospel of life. This is a responsibility which first concerns married couples, called to be givers of life, on the basis of an ever greater awareness of the meaning of procreation as a unique event which clearly reveals that human life is a gift received in order then to be given as a gift. In giving origin to a new life, parents recognize that the child, 'as the fruit of their mutual gift of love, is, in turn, a gift for both of them, a gift which flows from them.'

"It is above all in raising children that the family fulfils its mission to proclaim the Gospel of life. By word and example, in the daily round of relations and choices, and through concrete actions and signs, parents lead their children to authentic freedom, actualized in the sincere gift of self, and they cultivate in them respect for others, a sense of justice, cordial openness, dialogue, generous service, solidarity and all the other values which help people to live life as a gift. In raising children Christian parents must be concerned about their children's faith and help them to fulfil the vocation God has given them. The parents' mission as educators also includes teaching and giving their children an example of the true meaning of suffering and death. They will be able to do this if they are sensitive to all kinds of suffering around them and, even more, if they succeed in fostering attitudes of closeness, assistance and sharing towards sick or elderly members of the family.

"The family celebrates the Gospel of life through daily prayer, both individual prayer and family prayer. The family prays in order to glorify and give thanks to God for the gift of life, and implores his light and strength in order to face times of difficulty and suffering without losing hope. But the celebration which gives meaning to every other form of prayer and worship is found in the family's actual daily life together, if it is a life of love and self-giving.

"This celebration thus becomes a service to the Gospel of life, expressed through solidarity as experienced within and around the family in the form of concerned, attentive and loving care shown in the humble, ordinary events of each day. As 'a firm and persevering determination to commit oneself to the common good,' solidarity also needs to be practiced through participation in social and political life. Serving the Gospel of life thus means that the family, particularly through its membership of family associations, works to ensure that the laws and institutions of the State in no way violate the right to life, from conception to natural death, but rather protect and promote it."

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